When do you draw a line in friendship?
What happens when friendship clashes with your principles? Yesterday had a fight with an old friend. Latey her crossing the line seemed endless. And suddenly you realise what you are supporting is something you are principally against. After a long time I actually madly, ruthlessly and completely lost my temper. I am sure I surprised and pained her, I surprised myself no less. There was once a time when I used to floy of the handle quiet a lot. Then broken heart, staying away from home and adjusting with strangers had made me a lot more docile. Yesterday suddenly I was off the hook. I realised that I could be regreting it today but strangely do not. I did what I felt to be right at that point and I still feel the same!
Friendships are very strange things. You want to be in a mutually beneficial friendship, but when you realise that you are the only one giving in the friendship, and the other person in just using you, its time to quite. Same as your situation. If you guys are not on the same moral level, chances are that your friendship will not last. Dont feel bad, its for the best!!!
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